这是一个美国家庭用八年时间做出的决定。作者和妻子丽兹是两位摄影学教授,2010年从韩国收养了儿子亨利。特朗普2016年当选后,丽兹已预感到危险;国会暴乱发生后,夫妻俩彻底打消了在美国养老的念头。他们卖掉缅因州的度假屋,在新不伦瑞克省购置林地、修建新家。


2025年,作者通过移民体检,顺利获批永久居留权,并于去年11月正式登陆加拿大。亨利即将高中毕业,也在考虑赴加就读。👇



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我的妻子丽兹和我于2010年从韩国收养了我们的儿子亨利。

My wife, Liz, and I adopted our baby son, Henry, from South Korea in 2010.

  • adopted此处指通过法律程序正式收养孩子,区别于非正式的监护关系



在漫长而煎熬的等待期里,他一直住在一个寄养家庭。

During the many agonizing months it took to complete the process, he lived with a foster family.

  • agonizing形容极度痛苦、折磨人的煎熬,此处指漫长等待过程中的心理折磨
  • foster作形容词修饰 family,指通过官方安排临时照料儿童的"寄养"家庭,不同于收养



我们会给他寄玩具和我们自己的照片,他的寄养父母则会寄来他指着我们的照片微笑的图片。

We'd mail him toys and photos of ourselves, and his foster parents would send pictures of him pointing and smiling at us.

  • "would + 动词原形"在此表示过去反复发生的习惯性动作,相当于中文的"会……、总是……"



最终,我们飞越半个地球去接他,把他带回我们在水牛城的家。

Finally, we flew halfway around the world to pick him up and bring him back to our home in Buffalo.

  • halfway around the world固定短语,字面意思是"绕地球半圈",实则用于夸张强调路途极其遥远



我们相信,美国会给他一切机会去开创事业、取得成功,成为他想成为的人。

We trusted that the U.S. would give him every opportunity to build a career, succeed and become whoever he wanted to be.

  • "whoever he wanted to be"是名词性从句,whoever 引导,意为"无论他想成为什么样的人",强调无限可能性



在最初的几年里,我们没有任何理由去质疑这个信念。

For a few years, we had no reason to question that belief.

  • question此处作动词,意为"质疑、对……产生怀疑",比 doubt 更强调主动审视



亨利进入幼儿园后很快就交到了朋友。

Henry easily made friends when he got to kindergarten.

  • kindergarten幼儿园,美国教育体系中正式学制的起点,通常指5至6岁入读的学前班



尽管我们所在的社区以白人为主,但除了偶尔有几个孩子嘲笑他眼睛的形状之外,所有人都欢迎他。

And, although our community was predominantly white, he was welcomed by everyone—aside from a couple of isolated incidents where kids mocked the shape of his eyes.

  • predominantly副词,意为"以……为主、占绝大多数",描述社区的族裔构成
  • isolated此处意为"个别的、偶发的",强调此类事件极少,非普遍现象
  • mocked动词,意为"嘲弄、取笑",含有恶意模仿或讥讽的意味



丽兹和我都是摄影学教授,我们热爱自己的教学事业,还在缅因州买了一栋避暑别墅,我们希望在那里退休。

Liz and I, both photography professors, enjoyed our teaching careers, and we bought a summer house in Maine, where we hoped to retire.

  • retire退休,此处特指选择在缅因州定居养老,暗含对未来生活的规划与期许



2016年特朗普首次当选时,我乐观地想:也许不会那么糟糕!

When Trump was first elected in 2016, I optimistically thought, Maybe it won't be so bad!

  • optimistically副词,修饰"thought",意为"带着乐观情绪地",与后文妻子的"现实主义"形成对比



但丽兹更具现实主义精神,她看到了当时我所看不到的东西。

But Liz, who's more of a realist, saw what I couldn't back then.

  • realist名词,意为"现实主义者",指倾向于客观看待现实而非抱有幻想的人,"more of a realist"是固定搭配,意为"更偏向于现实主义者"



次年一月,她参加了在华盛顿特区举行的女性游行,极度担忧美国将很快沦落为《使女的故事》中吉利亚德更具种族主义色彩的翻版。

The following January, she attended the Women's March in Washington, D.C., scared to death that the United States would soon devolve into a more racist version of Gilead in The Handmaid's Tale.

  • scared to death固定短语,意为"吓得要死、极度恐惧",是夸张表达,强调程度之深
  • devolve into固定搭配,意为"退化成、沦为",指某事物向更差的状态演变
  • Gilead 是小说《使女的故事》(The Handmaid's Tale)中的极权神权国家,此处以此作比,暗指对美国政治极权化、性别压迫与种族歧视加剧的状况



同月,丽兹开始着手为亨利办理双重国籍。

That same month, Liz started the process of securing dual citizenship for Henry.

  • dual citizenship双重国籍,指同时持有两个国家公民身份的法律状态,是加拿大移民政策中的重要概念



她小时候曾在卡尔加里生活过,并取得了双重国籍,因此亨利通过她具备申请资格。

As a kid, she'd lived in Calgary and become a dual citizen, so Henry was eligible through her.

  • eligible形容词,意为"符合资格的、有资格申请的","eligible through her"指亨利通过母亲的公民身份继承申请资格



我们只需证明我们是他的合法父母,且他的收养手续合法有效。

We just had to prove that we were his legal parents and that his adoption was legitimate.

  • legal此处意为"具有法律效力的、合法认定的",强调法律层面的父母身份
  • legitimate意为"合法的、符合规定程序的",指收养手续经过正式法律途径完成



这需要填写大量表格和证明文件,但他的申请最终获批了。

That required a lot of forms and certificates, but his application was ultimately approved.

  • certificates证明文件、证书,此处泛指收养所需的各类官方文件
  • approved获批,用于移民申请、签证等官方审核场景中,是该领域的惯用表达



在此期间,我们将家庭相册和其他重要文件装进了乐柏美保鲜盒。

All the while, we filled Tupperware containers with family photo albums and other important documents.

  • Tupperware乐柏美,美国知名密封保鲜盒品牌,此处用品牌名代指密封储物盒,体现出作者准备"随时逃离"的紧迫心理



在最坏的情况下,如果局势恶化,我们可以把东西扔进车里,带上狗,向北驱车20分钟抵达边境。

Worst-case scenario, if things deteriorated, we could throw them in the car, grab the dogs and drive to the border 20 minutes north.

  • deteriorated动词,意为"(情况)恶化、变糟",在政治语境中指社会或政治局势的持续下滑
  • "Worst-case scenario"是固定短语,意为"在最坏的情况下",常用于风险评估或应急预案的语境



2021年1月6日下午,当丽兹和我在电视上目睹国会暴力冲击事件时,我仅存的那点乐观也随之烟消云散。

Whatever optimism I'd managed to hold on to evaporated on the afternoon of January 6, 2021, as Liz and I watched the violent Capitol insurrection on TV.

  • optimism乐观情绪、乐观主义,与前文作者自我描述的"optimistically"呼应,此处指他最后残存的乐观信念
  • evaporated动词,字面意为"蒸发",此处比喻"(情绪或信念)瞬间消散",生动形象
  • insurrection武装叛乱、暴动,在美国政治语境中专指2021年1月6日国会山冲击事件



这是MAGA虚伪本质的完美缩影,而一旦特朗普因煽动暴乱而逍遥法外,我们便知道他什么都能逃脱惩处。

It was the perfect encapsulation of MAGA's hypocrisy and, once Trump got away with inciting it, we knew he could get away with anything.

  • encapsulation名词,意为"集中体现、高度概括",强调某事物是另一事物本质的完美缩影
  • hypocrisy虚伪,指言行不一、表里不符的道德缺陷
  • inciting动词 incite 的动名词形式,意为"煽动、激起(暴力或叛乱)",常见于法律与政治语境
  • "get away with"是固定短语,意为"做了坏事却未受惩罚、逃脱责任"



在缅因州退休的计划彻底泡汤,我们迅速出手了那处避暑房产,在紧邻其北侧的新不伦瑞克省圣安德鲁斯镇买下了一块林地,可以俯瞰芬迪湾。

Retiring in Maine was officially out of the question, so we quickly offloaded our summer property and bought a forested plot just next door in St. Andrews, New Brunswick, overlooking the Bay of Fundy.

  • out of the question固定短语,意为"完全不可能、绝对行不通",语气比 impossible 更为斩钉截铁
  • offloaded口语化动词,意为"(急于)脱手、出售(房产或资产)",隐含迅速处置的意味
  • forested形容词,意为"有林木覆盖的、森林环绕的",描述地块的自然环境特征



在接下来的几年里,丽兹每次会在那里住上一个月,负责监督新家的建造。

Over the next couple of years, Liz lived there for a month at a time to oversee the construction of our new home.

  • oversee动词,意为"监督、统筹管理",常用于项目管理或工程建设语境



在我和亨利留守水牛城的日子里,特朗普2024年的竞选标牌开始出现在附近居民的草坪上。

Back in Buffalo, where I stayed with Henry, Trump 2024 signs started popping up on people's lawns.

  • popping up固定短语,意为"突然大量涌现、冒出来",生动描述标牌从无到有迅速增多的现象
  • lawns草坪,美国郊区住宅前的标志性景观,此处在庭院草坪上立竞选牌是美式政治文化的惯常表达支持的方式



这个人曾在竞选视频和集会上大肆抨击出生公民权,而人们还为此欢呼喝彩。

This was the guy who railed against birthright citizenship in campaign videos and at rallies—and people cheered.

  • railed against固定搭配,意为"激烈抨击、愤怒谴责",语气强烈,多用于政治演讲场景
  • birthright citizenship出生公民权,指依据出生地自动获得国籍的权利,是美国宪法第十四修正案的核心内容,也是特朗普第二任期重点攻击的政策之一



我们几乎可以确定,他下一步会把矛头对准像我们儿子这样的归化公民。

We had little doubt he'd target naturalized citizens like our son next.

  • naturalized形容词,意为"已归化的",指通过法律程序取得国籍的外籍人士,区别于出生即持有公民身份者,亨利作为被收养的韩裔子女,其公民身份属于此类



撇开对亨利的担忧不谈,移居加拿大对我而言并非难以说服自己的事;我本就对这个国家抱有特殊的情感。

My concerns about Henry aside, moving to Canada wasn't a hard sell for me; I already had a soft spot for it.

  • aside作副词,意为"姑且不论、暂且搁置","concerns aside"是固定用法,将某话题暂时搁置一旁
  • hard sell固定短语,原指强行推销,此处引申为"难以说服自己接受的事"
  • soft spot固定短语,意为"特殊的情感、软肋般的偏爱","have a soft spot for"表示对某人或某事怀有特别的好感



1996年,我第一次随丽兹去卡尔加里,她的朋友是我见过的最热情友好的人之一。

I first visited Calgary with Liz back in 1996, and her friends were some of the warmest people I'd ever met.

  • warmest此处意为"最热情、最友善的",warmth 在描述人际关系时常指发自内心的亲切与包容,而非气候上的温暖



多年后,丽兹的母亲去世,我们从水牛城驾车前往阿尔伯塔省,途中我彻底爱上了这个国家。

Years later, after her mom passed away, we took a road trip from Buffalo to Alberta and, during the drive, I fell fully in love with the country.

  • passed away固定短语,意为"去世",是"died"的委婉说法,语气更为柔和
  • road trip自驾长途旅行,强调旅途本身的体验,而非单纯的交通方式



特朗普第二次当选后大约一周,我聘请了一名移民律师,凭借丽兹超强的文书处理能力,提交了我永久居留权申请所需的全部材料。

I retained an immigration lawyer about a week after Trump's second election and, thanks to Liz's superhuman paperwork aptitude, submitted all the necessary information for my permanent residency application.

  • retained动词,意为"(以支付费用的方式)正式聘请(律师)",是法律领域的惯用表达,区别于一般的"hire"
  • superhuman形容词,意为"超乎常人的、非凡的",此处带有幽默和赞叹的语气
  • aptitude名词,意为"天赋、才能","paperwork aptitude"指处理繁杂文书材料的能力
  • permanent residency永久居留权,即通常所说的"PR",是加拿大移民体系中的核心概念,指在不具备公民身份的情况下在加拿大长期合法居住的资格



申请需要验血和体检,于是2025年2月,我越境前往加拿大尼亚加拉瀑布城参加体检。

It required bloodwork and a physical so, in February of 2025, I crossed into Canada's Niagara Falls for my exam.

  • bloodwork血液检查,指移民体检中的抽血化验项目
  • physical名词,意为"体格检查、体检",是"physical examination"的口语简称,移民申请中的必要医疗程序



"所以,你是因为特朗普来加拿大的……"护士在为我插针时说道。

"So, you're coming to Canada... Trump?" the nurse said after inserting the needle.

  • inserting动词,意为"插入",此处指护士将针头插入静脉进行抽血,是医疗操作的正式表达



"正是,"我答道。

"Exactly," I replied.



她笑着说:"来了很多这样的人。"

She laughed and said, "There have been a lot of you."

  • "There have been a lot of you"言简意赅,"you"泛指"像你这样因特朗普而移民加拿大的人",护士用现在完成时暗示这已是一种持续出现的现象



那次体检后不到两个月,我的申请便获批了,我于去年11月正式登陆加拿大。

Within two months of that appointment, my application was approved, and I landed in Canada last November.

  • landed在加拿大移民语境中,"land"是专业术语,指永久居民身份持有者首次正式入境加拿大、完成"登陆"手续,是PR流程的最后一步



除非政治上发生什么绝对灾难性的变故,我们决定暂不让亨利搬迁,等他明年与同学们一起高中毕业之后再说。

Unless something absolutely catastrophic happens politically, we've decided not to uproot Henry until next year, after he graduates high school alongside his friends.

  • catastrophic形容词,意为"灾难性的、毁灭性的",强调事态严重程度之极端
  • uproot动词,字面意为"连根拔起",引申为"强迫(某人)离开熟悉的生活环境",情感色彩浓厚



他还参加了一个由该州合作教育服务委员会开设的下午职业技能培训项目。

He's also part of an afternoon trades program run by the state's Board of Cooperative Educational Services.

  • trades此处指"职业技术类工种",如木工、电工、建筑等,"trades program"即职业技术培训项目
  • Cooperative Educational Services合作教育服务,美国各州为高中生提供职业技术教育的地区性机构,简称BOCES,是纽约州特有的公共教育项目



当然,这是他自己的选择;但考虑到他新近对建筑萌生的热情——以及马克·卡尼所有那些新的国家建设项目——我们正在鼓励亨利探索加拿大的高等教育机会。

It's his call, of course, but, considering his new love for construction—and all of Mark Carney's new nation-building projects—we're encouraging Henry to explore Canadian post-secondary schools.

  • nation-building国家建设,指政府主导的大规模基础设施投资与社会发展项目,此处特指卡尼政府的经济建设议程
  • post-secondary高等教育的,指高中毕业后的教育阶段,包括大学、职业学院等,是加拿大教育体系中的标准表达



与此同时,丽兹和我轮流独自在圣安德鲁斯的房子里住上几周或几个月,以满足我PR身份的居住要求。

In the meantime, Liz and I are taking turns living alone at the house in St. Andrews for a few weeks (or months) at a time, honouring the terms of my PR.

  • honouring动词,意为"履行、遵守(协议或规定)",此处使用加拿大英语拼写(honour而非honor),"honour the terms"是固定搭配,指遵守某项条款或协议
  • PR永久居留权(Permanent Residency)的缩写,加拿大移民政策中的核心身份类别,PR持有者须满足每两年在加居住满730天的要求



这不是我们任何一方曾设想过的退休生活,但我们正在让它运转起来。

It's not the retirement either of us imagined, but we're making it work.

  • "make it work"是固定短语,意为"让(某个不够理想的局面)运转起来、将就着过好",语气中带有积极适应的态度



在等待再次把儿子接回家的同时,丽兹和我正在这里扎根。

While we wait to bring home our son yet again, Liz and I are putting down roots.

  • putting down roots固定短语,意为"扎根、在某地定居并建立归属感",常用于描述移民或迁居后融入新环境的过程



我们已经和邻居们打成一片。

We've already hit it off with our neighbours.

  • hit it off固定短语,意为"一见如故、相处融洽",指初次接触便建立起良好关系
  • neighbours此处使用加拿大英语拼写(neighbours而非neighbors),作者有意使用,暗示对加拿大新生活的认同



丽兹加入了当地的划桨俱乐部。

Liz joined the local paddling club.

  • paddling划桨运动,指使用桨划行的水上运动,如皮划艇、独木舟等,是加拿大滨水社区常见的休闲运动



而根据我在Instagram上找到的一位加拿大美食评论家的推荐,我在大湾-韦斯特菲尔德的Eastbound Burgers吃到了我这辈子最好吃的汉堡。

And, on the advice of a Canadian food reviewer I found on Instagram, I ate the best burger of my life at Eastbound Burgers in Grand Bay–Westfield.

  • 此句无需注释,叙述直白,是文章中难得的轻松笔触,展现作者融入加拿大日常生活的细节



我甚至开始列一张心愿清单,包括前往圣皮埃尔岛和联邦大桥的旅行。

I've even started building a bucket list that includes trips to Saint-Pierre and the Confederation Bridge.

  • bucket list固定短语,意为"人生愿望清单",指在去世前希望完成的事情或体验的列表
  • Confederation Bridge联邦大桥,连接新不伦瑞克省与爱德华王子岛的跨海大桥,全长约13公里,是加拿大的标志性工程之一



但每当我发现这个国家某个美丽的新角落,我都会提醒自己克制。要等他们到了再说。

But every time I discover some beautiful new corner of this country, I catch myself. Not until they get here.

  • catch myself固定短语,意为"(意识到自己的行为或想法后)自我克制、及时打住",此处指作者在沉浸于新生活的愉悦时,突然意识到家人尚未到来,随即收起自己的情绪